March 2023 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

The Compassionate Friends 46th National Conference in Denver, CO (July 7th-9th) accepted my workshop proposal for “Got Grief Brain?” I’m honored and excited to participate in another TCF conference. This photo is from last year’s inspiring conference in Houston, Texas, where I gave two workshops.  

Photo by Amy Hodgson.

I’m also honored to be writing articles for the TCF e-magazine, We Need Not Walk Alone. Thanks to Editor Cathy Seehuetter for inviting me to write for this unique and helpful publication. I promise to do my best, Cathy.

Photographer unknown.

March 20th is the United Nation’s International Day of Happiness, established in 2012. According to a UN General Assembly resolution, the “conscious pursuit of happiness is a fundamental human goal.” The purpose of this special day is to make people around the world understand the importance of happiness in their lives. Goals for the day include eradicating poverty, reducing inequality, and protecting planet earth. Circle this day on the calendar and share your happiness with a family member, friend, or stranger.

Reviews

Daisy a Day is available in print and e-book form. This collection of 365 short readings is a thoughtful gift for anyone who is grieving. The readings are divided into categories: Shock and Anguish, Coping and Finding Balance, A New and Meaningful Life, and Making Good from Grief. Go to www.amazon.com or www.Bookshop.org to learn more about this grief resource.

Each month Kindle has deals on e-books. During the entire month of March, it is offering my book, The Family Caregiver’s Guide: How to Care for a Loved One at Home, for only 99 cents. You read that correctly, the price is 99 cents, a steal of a deal. Here are two customer reviews from Amazon.

A Must-Read for All Caregivers!

To state how impressed I am by this book is inadequate. The author is organized, intelligent, well-informed, and extremely caring advocate for all caregivers. I am not surprised by the impressive list of other self-help books she has written. She is truly a marvel. Joyce Shaughessy

A Remarkable Book, One That I Strongly Recommend

Harriet Hodgson’s beautiful book, The Family Caregiver’s Guide, offers concrete guidance for managing the details for caring for a disabled or terminally ill loved one. The minutia covered is astounding—from the type of bed or wheelchair needed to the supplies that should be bedside. Her checklists are invaluable, as they simplify an otherwise overwhelming responsibility.

Perhaps more importantly, author Hodgson offers support to the caregiver. She helps us see the beauty of “ordinary days,” and reminds us to embrace the miracle of life.  “Happiness is,” as she so correctly points out, “an inside job.” And, throughout this guide, Hodgson attends to the caregiver as though she or he were her best friend. Gwendolyn Plano, author of Letting Go into Perfect Love.

Book Business

My latest book, Winning: A Story of Grief and Renewal, is available for pre-order on Amazon and Bookshop. It’s a memoir of sorts and each chapter focuses on a different aspect of grief healing. The book is filled with practical tips for the bereaved and, in case you’re wondering, it has a happy ending. Pre-ordering has advantages. If paper and/or printing prices increase, you get the book for the original price. Order your copy or one for a friend today.

Centering Corporation published my workbook for grieving children, From Darkness toSunshine, for kids ages 7-12. Thanks to artist Anne Zygarowicz forher cover design. Visit www.centering.com and learn more about this participation book. While you’re at it, learn about From Sad to Glad, my book for younger kids.

Quote of the Month

“Don’t wait around for other people to be happy for you. Any happiness you get you’ve got to make yourself. ”

— Alice Walker, American novelist, short story author, poet, social activist, and Pulitzer Prize winner.

Reader’s Guide for Winning: A Story of Grief and Renewal

Click the above image to access a printable version of this Reader’s Guide

Introduction

In 2007 four of Hodgson’s family members died: her elder daughter, father-in-law, brother (and only sibling), and twin grandchildren’s father. A week after her daughter died, Hodgson sat down at the computer and poured out her grief in words. When her husband died in 2020, she did the same thing and the result is Winning, a story filled with heart-wrenching stories, surprising humor, and hope for the future.

Purposes

This book has two purposes. One is to create a personal healing path. The other is to encourage you to believe in a future.

Theme

Hodgson states the theme of the book at the beginning, refers to it again in the narrative and reminds readers of it at the end. The theme: Death would be the loser; life would be the winner. Iwould make it so. This theme helped Hodgson survive grief, create a new life, and thrive. The last line of Winning says it all: “I have made it so and you can too.”

Grief Topics

Each chapter of Winning focuses on a different healing topic. True stories and research findings emphasize these topics. At the end, the reader has a toolbox filled with healing steps to use as she or he chooses. Here are the chapter titles and topics.

1. Grief Face-to-Face (confronting grief)

2. Grief Brain: How to You Lose an Egg

3. Bumps, Jolts, and Kinds of Grief

4. Only Person on the Planet: COVID Days

5. Fixing Holes in My Support Hammock (support system)

6. Caring for You, Caring for Me (caregiving)

7. Renewal is an Inside Job (renewal steps)

8. Breaking Out of the Grief Bubble (decision, steps)

9. Making Good Things from Grief (creating a new life)

Topics for Discussion

• What are some examples of your Grief Brain?

• Loneliness is a powerful, hurtful emotion. How does the loneliness of grief make you feel?

• Think of the ways COVID changed your life.

• How can you improve and strengthen your support system?

• What is your first step you need to take to escape from the grief bubble?

• Think of four ways to make good things from grief.

About the Author

Harriet Hodgson has a BS in Early Childhood Education from Wheelock College of Education and Human Development at Boston University, an MA in Art Education from the University of Minnesota, and a certificate in art therapy coaching. After a dozen years in the classroom, Hodgson retired from teaching to pursue a freelance writing career. Today, she is the author of 44 books, including 11 grief healing resources. Winning is her 45th book. Please visit her website, www.harriethodgson.net, to learn more about this prolific author, speaker, grandmother, great grandmother, community volunteer, and doodle artist.

February 2023 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

Health Newsletter Article

This month’s issue of the “Mayo Clinic Health Letter” contains an article about widowhood with a sidebar titled “Harriet’s Story.” The sidebar details some of the ways I coped with my husband’s death in 2020—getting a grief buddy, daily self-care, and de-stressing with doodle art. I’m grateful to Mayo for publishing the article about John and me and all who read it. John, a Mayo Clinic Emeritus Staff member, was my biggest fan and source of inspiration. He continues to inspire me.

Photo by Elizabeth Nina Obert.

Reviews

Photographer unknown.

One of the best ways to help an author is to write a review. You may also tell relatives and friends about books you’ve enjoyed. Though many of my books have won awards, I still need reviews. A short, concise review (three sentences or so) can be powerful and moving. Please learn about the following books and post a customer review on Amazon. Thanks for your kindness and help.

• www.amazon.com/First-Steps-Snow-Harriet-Hodgson

• www.amazon.com/Daisy-Day-Hope-Grieving

• www.amazon.com/Grief-Doodling-Bringing-Back

• www.amazon.com/Grandma-Force-Grandmothers

• www.amazon.com/So-Youre-Raising-Your-Grandkids

Book Business

My New Book Cover

Graphic artist Rebecca Lown just finished the cover of my forthcoming book, Winning: A Story of Grief and Renewal and I love, love, love it! The cover is

artistic, upbeat and eye-catching. Even better, Lown’s design symbolizes the contents of the book.

I’m so glad Rebecca Lown designed my cover. The New York City-based artist graduated from the Rhode Island School of Design and studied printmaking and painting there. Lown has been designing book covers for more than 20 years. She focuses on covers because she feels the process is more creative than other types of graphic design.

“I’ve always been a big reader so the fusion of books and design made total sense,” she explained in an email.

As for design trends, Lown thinks covers will have more of an illustrative approach and lots of handwritten type. Watch for Lown’s design predictions and the cover of Winning, slated for fall release. For more information about this designer please visit www.rebeccalowndesign.com. View some of the other covers she designed.

Amazon Deals for You

Amazon has monthly deals on books and is offering two of my books at reduced prices. Starting February 2nd, the Kindle versions of The Grandma Force and So, You’re Raising Your Grandkids will be on sale for only $2.99. Ordering electronic versions of these books is quick and easy. Take advantage of the sale and grab your bargains today!

Quote of the Month

Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.  Victor Hugo, acclaimed French author and politician.

Photographer unknown.

January 2023 Monthly Newsletter

Oh, What a Christmas

Weather was the highlight of this holiday season. With temperatures at 11 to 12 degrees below zero, the windchill in Rochester hovered between 40 and 42 below. Even hardy Minnesotans, used to dressing in layers and jump-starting cars, complained about the weather. Because my grandson, Dr. John Welby, was on call Christmas day, we celebrated on Christmas eve. Despite the fierce windchill, my daughter, grandson, and his girlfriend made it to dinner. We opened gifts, shared stories and laughter.

A week later, we celebrated Christmas again with my granddaughter, her minister husband, and two toddler sons. But my granddaughter tested positive for COVID (no symptoms), so we all wore masks. To my surprise, the boys kept their masks on. The Grand Rapids folks delivered gifts, opened gifts, got in the car, and drove back home. At least I was able to see my great grandsons for an hour. Though we didn’t snag a photo in the chaos of gift exchanges, I have this photo of the boys baking cookies.

Photo by Haley Earley.

Reviews

So, You’re Raising Your Grandkids

This book is well written, researched, informative and encouraging. I rate this book five out of five stars because not only does Hodgson compile research and resources in a concise format, but she also adds a personal touch that offers empathy to those in challenging circumstances and simplifies what can be an overwhelming amount of information.

If someone is in the position of raising their grandchildren, So, You’re Raising Your Grandkids! would be helpful. However, I believe the audience for this book is larger than grandparents raising grandchildren. Those who find themselves unexpectedly raising the children of a loved one will find this book relatable and the included information useful. Additionally, those who have someone in their circle of loved ones unexpectedly raising children, who are seeking to be supportive, may also glean helpful information and perspective from this book.

Christine Willson, member of the Online Book Club.

Book Business

Open to Hope Podcast Appearance

I’ve been on Open to Hope Radio several times and was a guest for a December podcast. Thanks to co-hosts Dr. Gloria Horsley and her daughter, Dr. Heidi Horsley, for inviting me again. Dr. Gloria is founder of www.opentohope.com and Dr. Heidi is the Executive Director.

My comments came from my extensive grief experience and research. I trust our discussion helped those who suffered multiple losses and are finding their way through the darkness of grief.

Exciting News!

Amazon is featuring Grief Doodling: Bringing Back Your Smiles for the entire month of January. The cost is only $2.99—a real deal. Thanks to Terri Leidich of WriteLife Publishing for submitting my book. If you thought about ordering a copy, now is the time to do it.

The #Rave Reviews Book Club (RRBC) is featuring Daisy a Day: Hope for a Grieving Heart and So, You’re Raising Your Grandkids all through January. I’m grateful to RRBC and Nonnie Jules, owner and CEO of the virtual club, for featuring and promoting my books. It’s an honor to be a lifetime member of RRBC.

Quote of the Month

Now the Work of Christmas Begins

By Howard Thurman

When the song of the angels is stilled,
when the star in the sky is gone,
when the kings and princes are home,
when the shepherds are back with their flocks,
the work of Christmas begins:
to find the lost,
to heal the broken,
to feed the hungry,
 to release the prisoner,
to rebuild nations,
to bring peace among the people,
to make music in the heart.

December 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

Call Me Mrs. Doodle

I continue to create doodle art. My studio, which used to be John’s bedroom, has two windows, and the light is perfect. Every wall of my studio is covered with artwork. Instead of buying birthday cards for friends, I give them original doodle art. If I have time, I’ll make some doodle art Christmas cards.   

Photo by Margaret Freel.

Helping Grieving Kids

At least 204,000 children and teens in the US have lost parents to COVID, according to the COVID Collaborative. This is a shocking statistic. To help

grieving children, Zumbro Valley Medical Society Alliance (ZVMSA) made Grief Doodling its health project of the year.

Photo by Kathy Meyer RN.

ZVMSA gave copies of Grief Doodling to every counselor/social worker in the Rochester, MN Public Schools, public health nurses in Olmsted and Dodge counties in MN, Mayo Clinic Hospice offices, Elder Network grief support group in Rochester, and the Jeremiah Project, which serves single mothers and their children. We are also donating books to the Boys and Girls Club. ZVMSA was founded in 1928 and we’re dedicated to improving community health. I’ve belonged to ZVMSA for more than 40 years and am proud to be a member.

Thanksgiving Memories

Thanksgiving is all about family. I offered to host Thanksgiving dinner in my apartment. In preparation, I cleaned out my freezer and measured the sides to judge its capacity. Ruler in hand, I headed to Aldi’s, where I measured the length of frozen turkeys, which were all too large. (You can picture it, right?) I went to another grocery store and bought a frozen turkey breast, which fit in my freezer nicely. I made the cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes, and stuffing ahead of time. So far, so good.

Photo by Margaret Freel.

Then my grandson called and told me he had COVID, and his girlfriend might have it. Suddenly, dinner for six became dinner for four and we were glad to be together. I hate to admit this, but I like the stuffing more than the turkey. As usual, dessert was my sister-in-law’s fabulous pumpkin pie. Thanksgiving dinner was delicious, if I say so myself, and I was blessed to share it with family members.  

Reviews

A Good Foundation

Ready, Set, Lead! is a great message for future generations. Kathy and Harriet have done a wonderful job of bringing the concepts of leadership, kindness and courage to children through the art of verse and beautiful illustration. This book is a good foundation for the little leaders of tomorrow. The inclusivity of this book is refreshing, and I think it will be relatable for almost any child! Victoria Tecken, 5 out of 5 stars.

Profound and Beautiful

First Steps, First Snow by Harriet Hodgson is an enthralling poem with exquisite illustrations. A sweet book that I definitely recommend. The questions suggested to think about at the end of the book deepened the experience of reading it, making it even more profound and beautiful. Greta Volpe, 5 out of 5 stars.

Book Business

My 45th book, Winning, is in production now. I’m making corrections, a slow, tedious process, especially with bifocals. Looking for tiny blue periods and semicolons and dashes strains my eyes and I need frequent breaks. Still, this part of the production process is worth the effort. Thanks to WriteLife for publishing  Winning. Thanks to editor Andrea Vande Vord for her diligent work. The cover is supposed to be ready this month. I can hardly wait to see it!

Quote of the Month

I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year. – Charles Dickens, British author and social critic.

November 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

Photo by Haley Earley.

Getting together with family members is the joy of my life. Here’s the latest photo of the gang. Having two toddlers be still for the photo was an achievement. My granddaughter took another picture of the “foot twins,” my daughter wearing a protective boot after surgery and me wearing a slipper because of a swollen foot. We enjoyed our Italian dinner, acclimated to noisy toddlers, and shared many laughs.

Photo by Haley Earley.

Reviews

Daisy A Day by Harriet Hodgson is a handbook of practical tips for those who are mourning the loss of a loved one. The book is based on the author’s own experiences of coping with significant losses of family members in her life. Her beginning quote, “This book is for all who grieve. Grief links us together and we will survive it together” sums up the goal of the book. This book provides nuggets of encouragement at various stages of grieving.

Photo by Kathy Meyer, RN.

It is divided into four sections to match a person’s journey in mourning: 1) Shock and Anguish, 2) Coping and Finding Balance, 3) A New and Meaningful Life, and 4) Making Good from Grief. One of the quotes that resonated with me is as follows: “The death of a child is an out-of-turn death—nature’s mistake. You are shattered because you have been robbed of the present and the future. The realization is agonizing. Be grateful for the time you had with your child.” I encouraged readers to purchase Daisy A Day, a paperback to be kept in easy reach whenever you need a tidbit of encouragement to get you through a difficult time in grieving. Highly recommended.  L.D. Tanner, Vine Voice reviewer.

Book Business

Centering Corporation is one of the largest sources of grief resources in the nation. Founded in 1977, the non-profit corporation has donated two million grief resources to grieving families and those who care for them. I’m grateful to Centering Corporation for publishing an updated version of my book, From Darkness to Sunshine: A Workbook for Grieving Kids.

Photo courtesy of Centering Corporation.

I love the cover and interior illustrations by Anne Zygarowicz and am a new fan of hers. If your child is grieving, or you know a grieving child, this participation book is a thoughtful gift, one that can help them understand and process feelings. Give the gift of caring and order a copy today. Just call 1-866-218-0101.

Quote of the Month

O Lord that lends me life, lend me a heart replete with thankfulness.  William Shakespeare, British poet, playwright, and actor.

First Steps, First Snow Reading Guide

Purpose

• The purpose of First Steps, First Snow is to increase children’s awareness of changing seasons, woodlands, and the nocturnal animals that live in them.

Before You Start Reading

• Page through the book.

• Note the questions to answer at the back.

While You are Reading

• Point to all the night-time animals.

• Look for details: lost mitten, dried ferns, children’s rosy cheeks, toys in bedroom.

• Move your finger along the footsteps that are pictured.

• Notice how the moon moves as the pictures progress.

• Point to the trees and name them: pine, white birch.

Follow-Up Questions and Activities

1. Have you ever stayed in a cabin?

2. What do you think the inside of the cabin in the book looks like?

3. Do you like walking in the woods? Why?

4. What is your favorite picture?

5. Do you have a favorite animal?

6. Count the animals. How many are there?

7. Draw a picture of a cabin. Does it have a chimney?

8. Draw a picture of a tree. What do you like about trees?

9. Draw a picture of your dog or a dog you would like to have.

10.  Trace around some leaves and color them.

11.  Find other books about forests and forest animals.

12.  Learn more about the trees in your town.

13.  Go to a park with your parents or grandparents and look at the trees.

14.  Plant a small tree in a pot and care for it faithfully.

15.  Take a photo of the same tree in spring, summer, autumn, and fall.

16.  Write your own story about a family staying in a cabin.

October 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

I enjoyed being the keynote speaker at the Elder Network Fall Fling, the annual fundraiser. Dress was semi-formal, and I had nothing to wear. Thank you to my dear friend, Jo Ann, for sharing her glamorous jacket with me.

Photo by Dr. Ruth Kahn

Instead of speaking at the podium, I wore a clip-on mic, and circulated among the tables. When a new friend clipped the microphone on my jacket, I said, “Be  careful—this is borrowed finery.” After I finished my talk, “Because You Care,” the audience gave me a hearty round of applause, a lovely end to a lovely evening.

Reviews

First Steps, First Snow

I LOVED this. I loved its simplicity, and the depth it gave to those feelings.  I loved the connection to nature. I thought the illustrations were STUNNING.

NetGalley review by Megan Mann, librarian. 5 stars out of 5 stars.

 The Family Caregiver’s Cookbook fills that need for good, nutritious, and healthy cooking that doesn’t require long cooking or prep times. Not only is the food nutritious but it tastes great! You can tailor you cooking to the dietary needs of the person you are caring for and still give them a quick and healthy meal that you feel good about.  I cannot sing the praises of this cookbook enough as it is packed full of the author’s experience. You’ll read her stories, hints, tips, and of course the delicious recipes. There is so much information between the covers of this book, it will become your most used resource!!! NetGalley Review by Theresa Dunlop. 5 out of 5 stars.

The Family Caregiver’s Cookbook is available as an eBook.  Order your copy today!

Book Business

I just finished writing my 45th book, Winning: A Story of Grief and Renewal.  It’s a creative nonfiction book that tells how I created a new life after experiencing multiple losses. Winning be released in the fall of next year.

The release date for First Steps, First Snow has been changed. It is now October 23rd.  This is a perfect holiday gift for children who love snow and children who have never seen it. 

Quote of the Month

"Autumn is the time of year when Mother Nature says, "Look how easy, how healthy, and how beautiful letting go can be."

Toni Sorenson, author of Filling the Jars: Plan, Simplify, Take Action.

September 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

Keynote Speaker

There are many views from my window this month. I’m the keynote speaker at the Elder Network Fall Fling, a fundraiser to be held on September 17th at the Rochester International Event Center. “Because of You” is the title of my talk and it’s based on my 23 years of caregiving. The Fall Fling is an action-packed event with a live and silent auction, dinner, program, and after-dinner dancing. Thanks to Elder Network for this invitation.

The Compassionate Friends Conference

I was thrilled to be at The Compassionate Friends Annual Conference in Houston, Texas. Seeing the Open to Hope team and being with my daughter were the highlights of the trip. I networked with TCF members and spread the word about www.opentohope.com. Open to Hope has many resources for the bereaved—articles, radio, television, podcasts, webinars, and books.  

I gave two workshops at the conference, Grief Doodling: A Snapshot of Your Grief Journey and Affirmation Writing: A Forward Step on the Healing Path. Both workshops were well received. “Come to Denver!” a workshop attendee wrote in the survey form. I don’ know if I’ll be able to attend the Denver conference but I will try. Thanks to Open to Hope for sending me to the conference.

Photos courtesy of Amy Hodgson.

Stand With Ukraine

My church gave away packets of sunflower seeds from the Ukraine. I saw the nearly empty basket in the church office. Only one packet was left, and I grabbed it. I mailed the seeds to my daughter, a dedicated, excellent gardener. She planted the seeds and green shoots appeared quickly. The sunflowers grew higher and higher. Bunnies ate some of the flowers, storms damaged others, and this one remains. It reminds me to keep standing with Ukraine by donating to medical and religious organizations

Photo courtesy of Amy Hodgson.

More Doodle Art

On October 1st I’m going to participate on the Handcrafted Bazaar at the First Unitarian Universalist church in Rochester, MN. The bazaar will be held in the church parking lot. Fifty vendors will display their wares and two food trucks will be there for hungry browsers.

I’m creating doodle art for the bazaar now: 5” x 9” matted pictures in clear envelopes, framed double matted pictures (square); 11” x 17” unframed pictures. When people see my doodle art the comment is usually the same, “I love the colors!” If I want a yellow sky, so be it. If I want a purple tree trunk, so be it. I’ve gone color crazy in a healthy way.

I’m looking forward to the bazaar and hope the weather is sunny.

Book Business

First Steps, First Snow will be officially released on September 13th. The children’s picture book is available in hardcover and Kindle formats. Here is the Amazon blurb.

Whether it’s changing seasons, changing scenes, or observing wildlife, nature adds wonder to our lives. First Steps, First Snow (based on a true story) describes a magical walk in the woods on a winter night. The poem guides readers on the walk and encourages the observation of nature. Watercolor illustrations show nocturnal animals that life in forests. At the end, the two children and animals are all snug  and sound asleep—a perfect bedtime story for readers of all ages.

Reviews

More reviews are coming in for First Steps, First Snow. The Children’s Book Review says, “First Steps, First Snow is beautiful, timeless, and joyful.”

A NewGalley reviewer shared her feelings about the book.

With simple rhyming a tale of walking through the woods on a snowy day and being the first to make footprints is told by a lover of winter in Wisconsin. I  enjoyed the animals and the children who looked for them. Well suited for reading WITH someone of any age. I really want to get one for my local public library (in Wisconsin!)! The illustrations by Carol Hill Quirk are delightful, colorful, muted, and imaginative. Reviewed by Jan Tangen. Five out of five stars.

Quote of the Month

There is something so special in the early leaves drifting from the trees—as if we are to be allowed a chance to peel, to refresh, and start again. 

British author Ruth Ahmed, a synonym for the writing team of Anstey Spraggan and Dimmi Kahn.

August 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

Amy and I were thrilled with our cruise of the Snake and Columbia Rivers. We hardly heard the paddle wheel, and it became background music. Our cabin was perfect. Two back windows and two side windows gave us panoramic views of the changing scenery. The food on board was excellent and so were our appetites.

Photo courtesy of Amy Hodgson.

Going through eight river locks was the most exciting part of the trip. I talked with other passengers, and they thought the locks were the highlight too. One lock lowered the ship 105 feet to the water below. This photo shows me standing on the back deck as the ship exited the lock. You can see the lock wall on the left.

Photo courtesy of Amy Hodgson.

We will remember the trip to Mount St. Helen’s the rest of our lives. Mount St. Helen’s is usually shrouded in fog, but we had sunny weather. The volcano erupted 43 years ago, and you may remember the headlines. Over time, the mountain and surrounding mountains restored themselves. Green pine trees blanketed the mountains and wildflowers were blooming. I feel blessed to live in such a beautiful country.

Book Business

I’m off to Houston, Texas to speak at The Compassionate Friends National Conference. My daughter Amy—artist, traveling companion, slide-maker, and trusted assistant—is coming with me. The conference goes from August 5-7 and I’m giving two workshops. One is “Affirmation Writing: A Forward Step on Your Healing Path.” The other is “Grief Doodling: A snapshot of Your Grief Journey.”

Attending the conference will allow me to spend time with Open to Hope team members Dr. Gloria Horsley, Dr. Heidi Horsley, and Neil Chethik. I am grateful to the Open to Hope Foundation for sending me to this conference, looking forward to seeing TCF friends, and making new friends.

Reviews

Daisy A Day: Hope for a Grieving Heart was featured in a Goodreads give-away. Six hundred forty-one entrants responded to the offer and 597 shelved the book as “Want to Read.” These were encouraging results and I will enter another book in the give-away.

Daisy A Day also received the Firebird Book Award in the self-help category. These awards are given by Speak Up Talk Radio. This is the second Firebird Book Award I have received. Grief Doodling: Bringing Back Your Smiles was also a winner.

NetGalley review of First Steps, First Snow

Great children’s book. The graphics were appealing, and the overall storyline was well written. I recommend First Steps, First Snow to readers. I was fun and I can’t wait to see more from this author. Five stars out of five stars. Reviewer: Ily Renfroe, journalist.

Quote of the Month

The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page. – Saint Augustine, Christian bishop, theologian, and philosopher.

July 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

My daughter and I are going on a cruise this month. We’re taking a paddle boat cruise on the Snake and Columbia rivers. When I made the reservation, the only cabin left on the boat was the one over the paddle. I don’t know if the paddle wheel is noisy or not. I do know we’ll be the first to know if the paddle fails!

Photo courtesy of Amy Hodgson.

I gave a two-hour doodling workshop at my church. All the techniques were from my book, Grief Doodling: Bringing Back Your Smiles. With these simple techniques you can create hundreds of pictures. At the end of the workshop, I showed some of my doodle art and this landscape was one of them.

Recently I attended my great grandson’s birthday party. He is now three years old. (I don’t know where the years went.) Uncle John gave Everett a child’s guitar and a harmonica. The guitar was a hit because Daddy plays the guitar and sings. It took a while for Everett to figure out how to blow the harmonica. Once he did, however, everyone cheered. When Uncle John cued up a video of a professional musician who played the guitar and harmonica, Everett’s body language changed, and he became a rock star. Happy Birthday Everett!

Everett with his brother Judah. Photo by Amy Hodgson.

Book Business

I submitted Grief Doodling to the 2021 INDIE Awards. These awards are given by Foreword Reviews, a review journal that showcases independently published books. More than 2,700 entries were submitted and they were divided into 55 categories.

Grief Doodling received the Bronze Award in the grief category. I’m thrilled to receive this award and hope it helps bereaved people of all ages. Here I am holding my official award certificate. Thanks to WritingLife Publishing for having faith in the book and me.

Photo by Amy Hodgson.

Reviews

The Children’s Book Review evaluated my forthcoming children’s book, First Steps, First Snow. I’m grateful for this lovely review.

         The forest is always beautiful, but at night, in the snow, under the glow of the full moon, it is truly wondrous. From deer grazing with their fawns to foxes and raccoons hunting in the drifts and an owl gliding from branch to snowy branch, the forest is full of nighttime friends. To walk through the first snowfall of the year and hear it crunching under your boots as you walk through the “timeless trees” is the perfect way to celebrate winter—especially when, afterward, you get to curl up in a nice warm bed!

         Filled with scenes that will be familiar to anyone who lives in and loves the woods, First Steps, First Snow uses both images and text to evoke the hush, mystery, and peace of a forest in winter at night. Simple, short snippets of text combine ryhme, poetic imagery, and sound words to encourage readers to imagine with all five senses, while beautiful, subdued ink and watercolor illustrations depict the forest and its inhabitants in loving detail.

When read aloud (with the time taken to linger over each image), the text is restful and meditative—perfect for bedtime reading. First Steps, First Snow is beautiful, timeless, and joyful.

Here’s another review by an author. I’m grateful for her review and friendship.

First Steps, First Snow is a beautiful story with beautiful illustrations. I wanted to bundle up and go out in the snow. In today’s technical world, how refreshing it is to depict nature, capturing precious moments, memories, the smiles, to be read over and over. Making snow angels is one of my personal favorites! This book will become a children’s classic. -- Judy Lipson, author of Celebration of Sisters:  It’s Never Too Late to Grieve.

Quote of the Month

I have promises to keep and miles to go before I sleep, and miles to go before I sleep.  Quote from “Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening” by Robert Frost, world-renowned American poet.

June 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

For me, and probably for you, the 24-hour television news cycle is often a downer. Every time I turn on news, I hear about more deaths in Ukraine, more sorrow about Covid, and more school shootings. Like me, you may limit television news viewing. Yet I’m grateful for the journalists who put their lives in danger to keep me informed.

These journalists are brave, determined, dedicated people. I commend them and wish them safe passage in these troubled times.

While I can’t change the world, I can change my tiny, tiny corner of it. I can be informed, write articles and books that help others, donate to worthy causes, and volunteer nationally or locally. That’s why I’m a candidate for the Charter House Residents’ Council. I may not be elected, but at least my heart is in the right place, and I tried.

Because I’m Assistant Editor of the Open to Hope Foundation website, www.opentohope.com, I’m in touch with many authors. My duties include asking authors to write for us, share excerpts from their books, and suggesting authors for radio, television, and podcasts. I feel honored to be part of the Open to Hope team and am learning as I go. Thanks for thinking of me, Open to Hope.

Thanks to The Compassionate Friends, an international organization for bereaved parents and families, for inviting me to speak at the national conference in Houston, Texas. I’ll be giving two workshops, one titled “Grief Doodling: A Snapshot of Your Journey” and the other titled “Affirmation Writing: A Forward Step on the Healing Path.” Because I’m a former teacher (once a teacher, always a teacher) I’ll have handouts for both sessions.

Book Business

Grief Doodling: Bringing Back Your Smiles is a 2021finalist in the INDIE Foreword awards. I was excited when I heard the news, and doubly excited to see the cover pictured in the May/June 2022 of Foreword magazine. The blurb tells a little about the book and cites my publisher, WriteLife. I’ve worked with this publisher many times and enjoy the process.

First Steps, First Snow, my forthcoming children’s book, will be officially released on September 13, 2022. However, the book is already on Amazon and available for pre-order. Log into Amazon and watch the wonderful video about the book. I’m spreading the news in other ways, including the Miami Book Fair, one of the largest in the nation.

If the Author Selection Committee accepts First Steps, First Snow, it will be displayed at the fair, and I could be asked to speak. Authors who are accepted for the fair are notified by email. Authors who are rejected receive no email. Though being a freelancer for 44 years taught me to accept “yay” and “nay” decisions, I’m keeping my fingers crossed.

Images from Amazon.com

I’m excited about being asked to appear on the “Dr. Roger” radio show on VoiceAmerica, a leading producer and distributor of online programs. Roger Landry, MD, MPH is author of the award-winning book, Live Long, Die Short: A Guide to Authentic Health and Successful Aging. Roger and his wife Paula are friends from my days at Aerospace Medical Association conferences and serving as President of the Wing. Our Zoom recording session is scheduled for June 30th and I don’t know when it will go live. Thanks for thinking of me, Paula and Roger.

Reviews

Nature and changing seasons enrich our lives. First Steps, First Snow, a book based on a real experience, tells a story about two kids walking in the woods after a snowstorm. Watercolor illustrations by Carol Hill Quirk invite readers on the walk and foster the observation of nocturnal animals and woodlands. At the end of the story, the kids and animals are cozy and sound asleep.

Reviews make an author’s world go round. I’ve submitted First Steps, First Snow to The Children’s Book Reviews, Common Sense Media, and authors of nature books for children. I need your review. If you’re a grandparent, parent, or book lover, contact me via my website, and I’ll send you an electronic copy. First Steps, First Snow turned out just like I dreamed. If I say so myself, it’s a beautiful book.

Photo by Kathy Meyer, R.N.

Quote of the Month

A book is a gift you can open again and again. -  Garrison Keillor, American author, singer, humorist, and radio personality.

May 2022 Monthly Newsletter

From My Window

Like artists around the world, Rochester, Minnesota artists are creating art in support of Ukraine.” In support of the war-ravaged country, I created this doodle art picture, “Stand with Ukraine.” The picture hangs with my 22 other doodle art pictures in the Parkside Gallery at Charter House, a Mayo Clinic retirement community. Thanks to Mayo Clinic Chaplain Rachael Hanson and Charter House for supporting the people of Ukraine. When we stand with Ukraine, we stand for freedom, human dignity, and peace.

Photo by Leslie Wallenfeldt

Doodle art is a major part of my life. When I start a doodle, I never know how it’s going to turn out. I’ve learned I can never do the same doodle again because it loses its spontaneity. After I’ve finished a picture, I set it on a chair and look at it for a few days. If I like the picture, I frame it and hang it in my studio. If I’m disappointed in a picture I discard it. Still, I learn something from every picture I create. (You could call me Mrs. Doodle.) I donated these pictures to the church auction.

Photo by Kathy Meyer, R.N.

Photo by Kathy Meyer, R.N.

Though I’m a poor outdoor gardener, I’m good at growing houseplants. A kind friend gave me cuttings from her Rochester ivy plant. Originally developed as ground cover by Holm & Olson, now gone, the ivy has extra-pointy leaves. Years ago, when my husband and I were engaged, I flew from Great Neck, Long Island to Rochester, MN to visit his family. Their house was covered with Rochester ivy and the green leaves against the white clapboard siding were charming. My Rochester ivy is flourishing.

Photo by Kathy Meyer, R.N.

Book Business

Sales of my latest book, Daisy a Day: Hope for a Grieving Heart, are off to a strong start. The book contains short readings for each day of the year—practical tips, glimmers of hope, and forward steps on your healing path. The eye-catching cover was designed by New York City designer Rebecca Lown,  www.rebeccalowndesign.com. A graduate of the Rhode Island School of Design, Lown specializes in book covers.

My next book, First Steps, First Snow will be officially released on September 13th. The cover and illustrations are by talented watercolor artist Carol Hill Quirk. Most of the illustrations are double-page ones, and kids will enjoy searching for nocturnal animals. The narrative, a rhyming poem I wrote years ago, was originally published in the American Poetry Anthology. The Amazon blurb describes the book well.

         Whether it’s changing seasons, changing scenes, or observing wildlife, nature adds wonder to our lives. First Steps, First Snow (based on a true story), describes a magical walk in the woods on a winter night. The poem guides readers on the walk and encourages the observation of nature. Watercolor illustrations show nocturnal animals that live in forests. At the end, the two children and the animals are all snug and sound asleep—a perfect bedtime story for readers of all ages. 

Reviews

Read it! https://www.netgalley.com/book/251957/review/348067. This excerpt is from a reader’s detailed review.  

WOW, I am the first person to write a review about this inspirational and short book about dealing with grief work after losing many loved ones—one right after another—in my case. I found this book to be helpful as a guide. I could also relate to this author, who has also lost several ones close together in time. She says sometimes we get “grief brain.” That is explained by easily misplacing things. This book has many helpful tips. They are broken up into small chunks of information. I will recommend this book to those who have experienced a sudden loss of a loved one. Karen Murphy, Five out of five stars.

Photo by Kathy Meyer, R.N.

Daisy A Day and First Steps, First Snow are available from Amazon. If you preorder books, the price usually remains the same and doesn’t reflect rising costs. Bulk orders are available from the publisher, http://www.writelife.com or by calling Terri Leidich at 1-678-316-4150. Get a jump on your holiday shopping. Instead of cards, give grieving friends Daisy A Day. They will appreciate your caring.

Quote of the Month

President Vladimir Zelensky of Ukraine prays for peace. With this thought in mind, I chose this quote: Mankind must remember that peace is not God’s gift to his creatures; peace is our gift to each other.Elie Wiesel, Romanian-born American, author of 57 books, professor, Nobel laureate, and holocaust survivor.

April 2022 Monthly Newsletter

Book Business

BIG NEWS! Grief Doodling: Bringing Back Your Smiles is a 2021 INDIES Book of the Year Award Finalist. These awards honor authors who are with independent publishers and mine is WriteLife. More than 2,500 entries were received, so making the short list is an achievement. My book will be displayed at the American Library Association Conference in Washington, D.C. from June 22nd to June 28th. The yearly conference attracts up to 10,000 librarians. 

IYou may be interested in two workbooks I’ve written for grieving children—From Sad to Gladand From Darkness to Sunshine. They are published by Centering Corporation in Omaha, Nebraska, a nonprofit company that specializes in grief books for all ages. Centering Corporation has donated 2,000,000 resources to individuals and groups. Kudos to you Centering!

On April 26th an article I’ve written about fostering leadership skills in children will be posted on https://makemomentos.com. This website is “designed for busy families to bridge the distance and active lives with a special time of connection.” You can narrate a book and send it to a special child for free. Professionally narrated books are also accepted. I’m thrilled to have Ready, Set, Lead! on this website.

I’m a member of the Rave Reviews Book Club (#RRBC). Much to my surprise, #RRBC just designated me as a Lifetime Member. While this designation comes with perks, the biggest perk is being among friends who understand a writer’s life. My column in The Pipeline magazine, “At Home with Harriet,” keeps me connected with these friends. Thanks to President and Founder Nonnie Jules for this honor. I hope to make you proud Nonnie!

Reviews

Daisy a Day  

         Harriet Hodgson is no stranger to grief as her new book, Daisy a Day, proves. This series of short thoughts takes us from the early stages of grief all the way to new possibilities as we survive our loss. Only someone with actual experience of bereavement could write with such insight about the difficulties of losing a family member. Hodgson uses her own stories to illustrate many of her comments. And there is humor in this book too! Just when we need it. I liked the concrete suggestions for activities as well. We all need to have ways to celebrate the one who is gone. This book will be a welcome resource for anyone who mourns.  Jane Callahan, JD, widow, and community volunteer.

From My Window

I’m blessed to have a loving family and two great grandsons. This family picture was taken at a birthday party for James, my granddaughter’s husband. He’s the tall, handsome man in the back. Though the dog is looking the other way, my family members look happy and lucid—an accomplishment with two energetic boys. Thanks to my grandson, Dr. John Welby, the food was fabulous. What a happy time!

Photo by Rev. James Earley.

The news from Ukraine makes me heartsick. I was a young child during World War II and remember food stamps, tending our victory garden, and blackouts. My father was an air raid warden and, when we had blackouts, he checked neighborhood houses to ensure no lights were visible. Now I feel like the world is engaged in another world war. How could I help? In memory of my physician husband, John, I sent money to Samaritan’s Purse because it had a hospital on the border of Ukraine within days, www.samaritanspurse.org. I donated to Doctors Without Borders, www.doctorswithoutborders.org, and the Ukrainian Medical Association of North America Crisis Response, www.umana.org.

Quote of the Month

We will not learn to live together in peace by killing each other’s children. Jimmy Carter, 39thPresident of the United States, politician, and philanthropist. I created this doodle art in support of Ukraine.

Photo by Amy J. Hodgson

March 2022 Monthly Newsletter

Book Business

Thanks to John Daly, WriteLife tech expert and author of the Sean Coleman thriller series, for talking with me about Grief Doodling: Bringing Back Your Smiles. John is an excellent reviewer—prepared, cordial, and an astute listener. I posted the interview on Facebook and Twitter. If you didn’t see it, follow this link now: https://writelife.com/interview-harriet-hodgson.  To watch the book-trailer go to www.youtube.com and use the search words “Grief Doodling.”

I’m thrilled with the blog tour organized by 4 Wills Publishing for The Grandma Force. The week-long tour garnered many comments. Thanks to #RRBC and #RWISA members for sponsoring the tour. Here are some links to the book.

• Amazon US eBook   https://amzn.to/2x1dr4c

• Amazon US paperback   https://amzn.to/2JPDIDm

• IndieBound paperback   http://bot.ly/2GoFdSl

•  Kobo   http://bit.ly/2XXMOSY

• Barnes and Noble   http://bit.ly/2JVgWER

• iBooks   https://apple.co/2JLjEOx

Reviews

Reviews for my forthcoming book, Daisy a Day: Hope for a Grieving Heart, are heartwarming. Several reviews brought tears to my eyes. I’m grateful to these experts for taking the time to read my book and write a review. You are friends in need and deed.

• Marty Tousley, RN, MS, FT, Grief Counselor and author of Finding Your Way Through Grief: A Guide for the First Year

• Mary Amundsen, RN, BSN, MS in Counseling, author and poet

• Joy Brown, founder of Centering Corporation, author of about 50 books, and author of the BOOB Girls comedy mystery series for women

• Elizabeth Coplan, Grief Dialogues Founder and Chief Playwright

• Edward Creagan, MD, FAAHPM, Emeritus Professor of Medical Oncology, Mayo Clinic Medical School, author of Farewell: Vital End-of-Life Questions and Candid Answers from a Leading Palliative and Hospice Physician

• Adrienne Gruberg, Founder and President, The Caregiver Space, Inc., www.thecaregiverspace.com

• Stedman Stevens, bereaved husband and father, author of A Beautiful Life: The Little Things that Help Grieving Families

• Reverend Luke Stevens-Royer, minister and poet

• Lynda Cheldelin Fell, International Grief Institute founding partner, and author of about 50 books

Photo by Kathy Meyer, RN

Reviews continue to come in and I will post them on Amazon. Daisy a Day will be officially released on May 3rd and is available for preorder now. To grab your copy, go to www.amazon.com/harriet-hodgson/daisy-a-day. 

From My Window

Charter House (Mayo Clinic retirement living) officially opened its art exhibit at the end of February. I have 21 doodle art pictures in the exhibit. Many residents have asked me about doodle art, what it is, and how I do it. Comments about my doodle art range from “Wow!” to “I love the colors” to “They make me happy.” Residents gather in these chairs beneath my doodle art and across from other pictures. If I’ve made some people happy I feel like I’ve done something good.

Photo by Kathy Meyer, RN

The walls of my studio were bare after most of my pictures were transferred to the exhibit. Since I couldn’t stand looking at empty walls and protruding nails, I ordered more frames, did more doodle art, and hung more pictures. Yep, I’m addicted to doodle art and love it. The techniques I use are simple ones. All are described and illustrated in Grief Doodling.

Quote of the Month

Instead of a quote this month, I ask you to pray for Ukraine, its president, and its people. This is a humanitarian crisis and, no matter what your political views may be, every life is sacred. Stand with Ukraine!